14) Being A Man correct answer = letter d
What a woman says she wants from a man and what she respects and finds attractive are two very very different things. Understand that psychologically a woman may not understand or have studied 'attraction' anymore than the average man has, so you cannot expect her to know what triggers attraction for her. Just know that if a man dotes on a woman and showers her with gifts constantly, a template is set which will ultimately backfire, and she will lose respect for him in time. Give her 'stuff' and your mystery, intrigue and control disappears. YOU control the situation at all times and you don't pander to anyone's nonsense. Ask yourself; do you want to be a lover or a provider? The choice is yours. If you do everything a girl wants you to do, whenever she wants it, you will be chewed up and spat out before you can say 'flavored condom'. Give her constant praise and attention and you are fueling an ugly separation. Sure, praise from time to time, make her feel good, be attentive, but constant?? Aye! Be a man. Be real. Keep HER real. What a woman really wants is for a man to be a man, to be confident and strong, to be in control when her emotions get out of control (often!) and to lay down the law. Yes you heard the last bit right. If you are adamant about how things should be for YOU, and you won't put up with nonsense, she will respect you and want you, and want you more.