6) Maintaining Attraction correct answer = a
Trust me, when you see a girl's eyes glaze over on your first date, it's pretty much over. You certainly cannot ask her to dinner and expect a positive response, and killing a vibe even further with an intellectual debate just ain't gonna work! At this point you only have one option and that is to shock her back to life! You have to remember that attraction can get lost if you talk about the wrong things. Get back to attraction with flirty, fun, and frankly, silly stuff. Remember, YOU must be in control of the situation, so have your antenna up at all times and know when attraction is going out the window. Having said that, it is very likely that she is doing absolutely nothing for you either and the two of you are just not connecting. When this is the case, run off to your next meeting. |