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Articles on DatingTips4Men.com A secret women know but men don't Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage. There was an occasional hug, an occasional kiss on the cheek from her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue. But something was wrong with the picture. Read more... A wonderful idea to spice up your relationships Each week, one of you chooses from the cards of the other person. The cards are put into a hat and you have to draw a random card. After drawing, you don't look inside yet. You see what kind of card it is (Sex, Romance, Adventure) and decide whether to keep it or not. If you choose to keep it, you have to fulfill whatever it is on the card. If you drop it, choose another card till you draw a different kind. Put the sex cards that you didn't use back to the other cards. Read more... How guys screw up first dates Women are usually casual and laid-back when they're first meeting a guy... But GUYS tend to act like every girl is a POTENTIAL WIFE. As you can imagine, this creates a lot of tension and pressure. And I'm not talking about the GOOD kind, either. Read more... How to get a woman's phone number within 3 minutes of meeting her Women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person. Read more... How to call a woman to ask her out When you get a woman's number and you're picking up the phone to call and "ask her out", does it bother you? Do you get freaked out? Do you start thinking about exactly what you're going to say, how you're going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you... etc.? Read more... How to make your dates effective You are on the first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your palms are sweating, you are trying damn hard to come up with something funny to say, only to have long silences in your conversation. She gets up after an hour and says: "Sorry but it's getting late. I have to go home to feed my dog." Before you could say something, she has left already. Read more... Looking for the holy grail There is a special phenomenon when a guy starts to learn about women for the first time. I call it "the grand search for the holy grail." I have seen many guys who were unsuccessful with women for years of their lives. Then one day, they type "seduction" into Google and find a bunch of web pages and e-books dealing with "how to seduce girls" "what women want" "the best pick-up lines" etc. Suddenly they get all excited and start looking for the "holy grail", the key that opens the heart (and the legs) of every woman. Read more... Secrets of dating younger women If you meet the right younger woman, you'll find that she can bring an amazing energy, vibe, and youthful atmosphere to your life. After having the experience myself, talking to other guys who have shared it, and reading about it a lot, I can say that many guys have the experience of FEELING YOUNGER and MORE VITAL when dating a younger woman. It can be a blast. Read more... Getting Beat By A Girl There's a lot of talk about "approach anxiety", and for good reason. It has been optimistically estimated that over 80% of all men are terrified of approaching attractive women they have ever met. And let's face it: without overcoming this fear it's all but impossible for a man to experience any success whatsoever in meeting great women, let alone attracting and keeping them. Read more... Double Barreled Dating Disaster By now, most of you all who are reading this (unless perhaps you just now are showing up, in which case welcome) fully realize that needy, wimpy Nice Guys get nowhere with women by supplicating, capitulating and otherwise fulfilling upon various other big words with small meanings. Read more... Worse Than 'Just Be Friends' - 'The Harmless Zone' When two people are seeing each other and one isnt quite feelin it, the other is invariably about to get the Just Be Friends talk. This, of course, is assuming were not dealing with desperate, clingy people who would rather settle than be confronted with having to meet someone else. Read more... Dating Success - Why The Rich Get Richer It's a well known and much debated economic principle that "the rich get richer". When it comes to finances, the rule tends to be that those who already have a certain level of financial liquidity tend to find it tons easier to make even more money. And guess what? The exact same principle holds true when it comes to dating and attraction. Read more... How To Eliminate Fear Of Rejection By The Opposite Sex So many of us artificially limit ourselves from believing that we can possibly deserve the kind of partner we want. Going way beyond "approach anxiety"&going way beyond "getting beat by a girl" and indeed way beyond anything you've ever heard from me until now, it can be safely assumed that much of the problem is directly attributable to how you see yourself vs. how you see others. Read more... Dating Success - Doubt In The Face Of Belief All of us are inspired when we hear stories of BELIEF in the face of DOUBT. Movies like "The Pursuit Of Happyness", "Rudy" and "Hoosiers" all come to mind. The characters in each respective flick are repeatedly told that they would or even SHOULD fail, yet their sheer will and determination carries them to wildly successful victory against all odds. And it's human nature for us to LOVE these movies. Read more... How to get a woman to shower you with attention To 'detach' from a woman, you first need to ignite a spark of attraction with flirtatious behavior... Smiles, seductive language, exciting movements. After you've set the stage with flirtatious behavior, it's time to 'detach' and back off... Suddenly, the woman is left wondering why you backed off. She is left thinking about you. Read more... Ten most dangerous mistakes you probably make with women What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, EVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning". Read more... There is this one special girl I am longing for In a relationship but more importantly, when going out for the first time with somebody, it's always the person with less emotional involvement who dictates and chooses. This means if you go out with a girl and you let your happiness depend on how the date goes, you are ruining your chances before you had any. The more you stress yourself about a certain girl, the more emotionally involved you become and as a result, you are almost GUARANTEED to get rejected. Read more... What women hate about most single guys If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN. And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it is to find good men to date... Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in general... ...And wind up with a detailed list of all the traits guys have that are ANNOYING AS HELL. Read more... What women want in a man What you haven't quite realized fully yet is that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a woman, all the "normal" rules go away. If a woman feels that powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with you... just to be in your presence and have your attention. If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all you need to say is "come over here". No dates required Read more... When a girl wants you to approach her Here are a few examples. A girl coming in front of you who looks deep into your eyes and smiles is giving you a sign of interest. When you are on the bus and a certain girl maintains her proximity to you (even if you sit or stand somewhere else) is showing a sign of interest. Maybe you can notice with your peripheral sight that a girl is looking at you from time to time. Or the girl sitting next to you fixes her hair, puts on some make-up or does something to get your attention. Read more... Where girls go to get laid Here's a wonderful opportunity to meet a large number of hot girls. I think it's one of the easiest places to pick up women – and with a little bit of skill you will have literally no competition. Read more... Why very intelligent men fail with women It's hard for a smart guy to even IMAGINE a situation where his smart mind could HURT his chances for success... But trust me, this is one of those situations. So relax, open your smart mind, and let me share with you the ten reasons why smart guys fail with women... and what to do about it. Read more... You are not less because you have no woman If I had a teenage son, I would advise him to focus on perfecting himself instead of chasing girls. Society puts an abnormal pressure on younger (and even older) men. If you feel like you have to "prove yourself", your success and chances with women have already been RUINED. Read more... You can get the kind of women you have always wanted Guys who have lower self confidence when it comes to women like to think that they don't "deserve" to get the kind of women they want deeply inside. Well, if you belong to this group I have good news for you. Read more... Your looks do matter I'm sure you have seen model-looking guys with hot women and thought she must have only been with him because of his looks. On the contrary, you might have also seen butt-ugly guys with the hottest girls, which left you wondering. To understand the situation better, let's talk about the details of your first interaction with a girl. Read more...